The Fruits Of Killing Forbidden Love
Once in a while you find yourself in love with someone who you should not be. It is forbidden love. You are left wondering what you should do and if you should follow the feeling which love the person or the heart which is right and is telling you to move as far away as you can from this person. This person could be a married man or woman, your brother or sister or a Roman Catholic priest! You could be so in love with them that no matter what you did or they did, you still found yourself falling deeply in love with them. It is time you took action against this forbidden love. Just like loosing a person, you will feel sad for sometime but you will get over them if you did the following.
If you love someone and the love between the two of you is forbidden, avoid staying alone in the room with them. This is because if you are left in the room alone with this person you might do something you would otherwise not have done if there was someone else in the room with the two of you. Every time you find your selves in situations where there is only the two of you in a place, find an excuse to get out. Sometimes staying away from the person is the best thing you can do the two of you.
If the forbidden love you feel is for a married man think about the wife and children and how they will feel when they discover that you are the other woman. If that does not scare you, think about the Bible and what it says about not breaking two people apart. This should be enough reason to make you stay away from the person. If this does not work think of it this way. How many people leave their wives and children just because you came in and you love them? Close to none. Most men will not leave their wives for any other person in their lives. If you do not want to be the other person who has to meet up with the man only during weird hours and you can not hold hands because someone will see you do not have a forbidden love affair. It is stressful if you ask me. Think about all the things you will have to go through to make the relationship work, if it is too much, you are better of killing the relationship.
Lastly, talk about it. Talking about things has a surprising way of making us deal with a lot of things we thought we could not. Once you talk about something you are halfway solving the problem. Talk about it with the person you trust or get help from a specialist. You would be surprised that after talking about it, the feeling you felt for the person that you thought was love gradually disappears and what is left in you is some sisterly or brotherly love. Do not have forbidden love with anyone, you will only end up getting hurt. Remember it is forbidden and unacceptable, it can only mean one thing, in the long run, and it will only give you a heart ache.
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