Does It Scare You When Approaching A Woman?
At my age, and by the way I am 38, I have realized one thing for sure, that approaching a woman and starting a conversation without her rejecting you is a skill, but it is a skill that can be learned by any man young or old. Once on a time, I used to be in that unfortunate position, I did not have any skills in approaching a woman, yet later I was able to do it. However now I realize that any man can learn the art of approach a woman easily and with a lot of success. You might think that I am being silly or naive about this problem but it is not so, no! This is a very common problem with many men. One of the problems these men face when approaching a woman is that lack of confidence and fear of the woman. What happens inside our minds, when it prevents us from approaching a woman yet it would be so easy? How can a man overcome this line of thinking that is so defeating and destructive and result to action oriented outlook?
Last week, my mind went on rampage, I really wanted to perfect the art of approaching a woman, I counted 30 phone addresses from women I had met in town and on the spot, nobody introduced me to them. On most of them, I took less than 10 minutes to get their phone numbers. Now this is success by any standards, yet I have so many friends who cannot ask a woman out even after meeting her tens of times and does know for sure that the woman is single and in need of a man. My friends do not even realize what they are losing in life, the art of approaching a woman is all in the mind and it’s important for man to fight away the barriers that may be limiting him from approaching a woman. Why should a man look at a woman, develop instant fear and finally run away? Is there any logic in such an action?
Is it possible that our minds develop a false image of the woman you would like to approach, a monster perhaps? Understand; nothing out of the ordinary is going to happen, it’s the high time these men changed the way they think about approaching a woman. What you need is only a little bit of positive thinking on the part of the man. For most men, approaching a woman comes with a lot of stress, scary imaginations in your mind, and fear that one will be rejected. Fact; you should be able to deal with anything that the woman would do or say to you and believe me it will not hurt. Think positively and imagine that only the best can happen. The only loss that you get from a woman is to be ignored or just plain rejected. If in any case you win, you get the woman, if you lose, you learn a new trick and you sharpen the art of approaching a woman. What else could a man expect?
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