Listen to Women
Listen to women! This is the key to any man who wants to make a move on a woman. Ever wondered when exactly is the RIGHT time to call? Right after you meets someone? Only when you have something to talk about? That’s the only reason I’ve never called any girls up. It just seemed . . . Uncomfortable somehow. You know what I mean? There are many times that I have gone on what I thought was an amazing date only to find that the person never calls back or doesn’t seem to be interested when I tried to book another date. Nevertheless then I realized I always went for the one that treated me like crap and I need to listen to women.
I once landed one who sucked the very life out of my finances .This is the reason am choosing to be alone. I am writing this to show you that there are smart men out there, not that you need to go on a manhunt for the perfect man no, none of us humans I believe can achieve that title. I realize that real Men do exist and if you do find one, put a little faith in what you see, not hear. Its simple things we do (or don’t do) that prevent us from making a connection.
This is the reason I’ve interviewed hundreds of online and offline daters over the years and asked them what they were looking for, and it’s amazing to hear some of reasons that they gave. The most interesting view was that a man should never show off or try to impress too much. Imagine a man trying to tell you how much he will change your life just the first time that you meet! Have you ever, as a man tried to talk too much about yourself and did not ask your date even a single question? A guy that boasts about his income on a first date, despite how big the bucks are, is an enormous turn off. Always listen to women and try to understand them.
Have you ever wondered why men should listen to women when there’re Talking? It’s a fact; Men should learn to listen to women. If you ask so many questions, women will keep on answering without paying attention to what you are saying, or if you keep interrupting them, you may end loosing them just about when they are opening. These is what drive most women nuts! However for me, I would rather interrupt a woman when she is talking than check out other women. Have you ever tried to focus on the woman across the table from you and listen to what she had to say?
How about this; A man says that he’ll call and then he doesn’t. Why should a man act like he is going to follow up when he will not? This bothers most women. Better to end a date by saying, “It was good to meet you. Have a good night.” Don’t act like you’re going to follow up if you’re not. Appreciate that these women deserve to be treated well and deserve to be listened to. Men should run to listen to women! Any woman who responds to be treated like crap has issues! I would rather steer clear if I mistreated a woman and got her attention. I always try to listen to women.
Francis K. Githinji Is A Online Dating Expert. His Latest Project Listen To Women Shows How The Power Of Online Dating Can Be Harnessed Internationally and With Great Success
